“BUT I HAVE NO IDEA WHY I FEEL SO STUCK.”
I hear this so often. Women often come to me when they don’t know what else to do. They have tried reading books, hiring a therapist, balancing their hormones with their naturopath, changing jobs, moving homes etc etc. But they still feel off.
They don’t know why. “What is wrong with me? I just don’t feel well. I don’t feel satisfied in my life. I don’t feel the daily ease and joy that I want to feel.”
It’s because they are searching for outside solutions instead of going inside. We are not taught to go inside. We are not taught how to go inside. We are not taught how to BE our true selves and it is when we are BEING our true selves that we can FEEL the ease, joy, calm, grace, groundedness that we truly desire to feel in life.
Take Jean for example. When she came to me she had it all to the outside mainstream world. She had the family, was staying at home with her kids as she desired, had a beautiful home and wonderful husband. But she was feeling “empty” inside.
She joined the Tru-Life Academy because her doctor had referred her to the program and myself and she was just hoping that something would get her out of this “stuck” feeling. She began to wake up immediately.
We dove into her limiting beliefs and she realized she had always lived her life for other people. She did what her parents wanted her to do growing up and going to college. She got married and did everything for her husband. She had kids and did everything for her kids. She helped in the community. She helped her friends. She helped her parents. Her life had always been consumed with her helping other people.
She had no idea who she was.
She had no idea what her interests were.
She had no idea what her true desires were.
She had no idea what her true self dreams were.
She had absolutely no idea what her true self purposes were in her life outside of all the people around her.
So we started to dig deep and get to the inner work that she never knew she had to do and definitely didn’t know how to do on her own.
And I BELIEVE WE ALL NEED TO DO THE INNER WORK SO WE CAN LIVE OUR BEST LIVES, FEEL HOW WE DESIRE TO FEEL AND FULFILL OUR PURPOSES HERE ON EARTH!
AND WE NEED TO STAY ON TOP OF THE INNER WORK DAILY WHILE WE ARE LIVING OUR LIVES!
WE NEED TO DO THE INNER WORK.
She committed to her inner work daily and she is thriving today!
Her true self passion and purpose include travel and writing. She is still discovering more and more but she knows that now that her life is filled with travel and writing she is excited to wake up every single day of her life. She feels fulfilled. She feel energetic and focused. She knows she is more of the mother she was meant to be to her kids.
She says, “there is a different energy in our home. My kids are more curious about me. They ask me about my needs and desires and they listen to the stories I share with them. I feel more seen and heard by not only my kids but also my husband. I feel interesting. I feel important. I feel worthy for the first time in my life”.
“I am modeling living my truth for them. I encourage them to discover and live their truths. I want them to only do what lights them up!! I learned it later in life but I want them to learn it and live it now!!! Thank You so much Kelly for everything. You have changed so many people’s lives!”
She started to travel alone and writing just happened. She picked up a journal on her first trip at the airport. She said the journal was just calling her. And she wrote and wrote and wrote and has not stopped writing ever since. Now she takes trips with her kids. She takes trips with one child at a time for one-on-one time. They adventure and play.
“Kelly, I have learned to play for the first time in my life. I was always focused on doing the responsible thing. Doing the right thing. Making sure everyone was where they needed to be. Now I live in the moment. Play finds me. It just appears. It just is. Fun, happiness and laughter are part of my daily existence.”
Jean is not getting paid for “Travel Writing”! Oh yes!! She found her calling. She is inspired by people and places around the world. She organically attracted the energy and abundance of money back to her and she loves the feeling of being financially independent.
I absolutely love getting emails and chatting with women about their life experiences not only during the Tru-Life Academy but after the TLA! At the end of that year it’s really just the start of the next phase of their life!
Life is truly a journey and not a destination.
If you are inspired by Jean’s story message me and we can hop on the phone and see if the Tru-Life Academy is for you!
love & light, kelly