MUST READ: WHY DO YOU KEEP SABOTAGING YOURSELF???
Women come to me and say……
Why can’t I change?
What is wrong with me?
What is my problem?
I know what I want to do and how I want to be and I just can’t stick with it. Why not??
I’m working so hard every day to achieve___________ but I just can’t do it and it’s been 5 years or 10 years or 20 years!
I TELL THEM WE NEED TO GET TO THE ROOT.
WE NEED TO GET TO THE LIMITING BELIEFS.
WE NEED TO GET TO THE SHADOW BELIEFS.
WE NEED TO UNCOVER THE PROMISES THEY MADE TO THEMSELVES WHEN THEY WERE BETWEEN 0-10 YEARS OLD THAT WERE MEANT TO KEEP THEM SAFE BUT THAT ARE NO LONGER SERVING THEM!!!
We have shadow beliefs and limiting beliefs that are imprinted on us under the age of 10 years old. At this point we were too young to digest and process what was happening in a healthy way so we drew conclusions about ourselves and these beliefs are still within us.
These old limiting beliefs are still ruling our daily thoughts and decisions on what to do and how to be and our worth and so much more.
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’m not loveable.”
“I’m not smart.”
“Something is wrong with me.”
These are the limiting beliefs that most people walk around with and they don’t even know they are living by them! BUT THEY ARE ACTUALLY SABOTAGING EVERYTHING YOU TRULY DESIRE TO DO IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU HAVEN’T BEEN ABLE TO DO FOR “SOME REASON”.
At the heart of all these shadow beliefs is one fundamental belief which is “I’M NOT WORTHY”…… NOT WORTHY OF LOVE, MONEY, JOY, HAPPINESS, HEALTH ETC ETC.
So if you are going out into the world with these beliefs you are drawing towards you what will reinforce these beliefs!!!
READ THAT AGAIN!!! IF YOU ARE GOING OUT INTO THE WORLD WITH THESE BELIEFS YOU ARE DRAWING TOWARDS YOU WHAT WILL REINFORCE THESE BELIEFS!
Our beliefs are magnetic!!!
You see most of you have it backwards and I had it backwards for most of my life!! But not anymore!! And this is something I wake my clients up to immediately!
You think something outside of you will make you FEEL worthy. That something outside of you will change how you think about yourself.
But everything we are seeking externally needs to be resolved internally first!!! And the shift needs to happen within before we CAN DRAW TOWARDS US WHAT WILL SUPPORT US.
Plus, when we were under 10 years old we formed commitments and promises to ourselves in our family of origin SO THAT WE WOULD FEEL SAFE AND LOVED.
We truly are totally capable of creating all we are most committed to but the problem is most of us have NO IDEA WHAT WE ARE MOST COMMITTED TO.
We think we are committed to what we say we want but the truth is whenever there is a discrepancy between what you say you want and what you are actually experiencing it’s because there is an old underlying commitment in the way.
WHAT OLD UNDERLYING COMMITMENTS AND PROMISES DID YOU MAKE TO YOURSELF TO KEEP YOU SAFE WHEN YOU WERE BETWEEN 0-10 THAT ARE NOW SABOTAGING YOUR LIFE????? Take a moment and do a free-write. Or for many people things pop into their heads when they learn this! The light bulb goes on.
“I’ll stay invisible to stay safe.”
“I’ll stay quiet to be loved.”
These were two of mine. I’ll stay invisible and do the right things and be good to stay safe. I’ll stay quiet because when i’m quiet I get more love and am loved.
At the time these commitments and promises we made to ourselves served us very well. We made them so we could “survive”. They were survival strategies and/or coping mechanisms.
BUT AS WE GROW THEY BECOME THE SEEDS OF OUR SELF-SABOTAGE!!!!
Together the old outdated limiting beliefs with the old commitments NEED TO BE REVAMPED FROM AN ADULT PERSPECTIVE.
YOU NEED TO CREATE ……
-NEW TRUE-SELF BELIEFS THAT ALIGN WITH YOUR TRUE ADULT SELF.
-YOU NEED TO CREATE NEW COMMITMENTS AND MAKE NEW PROMISES TO YOURSELF AS THE TRUE SELF ADULT VERSION OF YOU.
You need to move into a place where you create conscious beliefs that serve you and conscious commitments that serve you- then take inspired actions daily!
You become this new person, giving off a new vibe, taking daily inspired actions and you will manifest all that you desire!
You create the vision and have the desires combined with regular “right” choices and take inspired actions from that point- and you will ……
-fulfill your purposes here on earth!
-feel joy, love, abundance and all the feelings you desire to feel.
-you will create your gifts and give them to the world.
-you will shine your brightest!
SO WHAT IS IN YOUR WAY OF CREATING ALL YOU DESIRE IS TOTALLY OUTDATED!!
My passion and purpose is helping women change from this root level!!! To create a new belief system and new commitments that serve you now!!! That rise you up. That help you become your true self. That help you take off all your masks and shine your brightest. That help you uncover your unique gifts you are meant to give to the world, package them up with your authentic personal brand and give them to the world in exchange for radical financial abundance!!!
Life is magnificent.
Life is magical.
It all comes down to CHOICES!! If you don’t do anything different your life, your future will look very much like your past. Is that what you want?
Or do you want to change so that your future is your dream come true????
You have the power to do this.
YOUR PRESENT MOMENT CHOICES PREDICT YOUR FUTURE.
The Tru-Life Academy is where you take a year to CHANGE! You become aware of the beliefs and commitments that are sabotaging you in your life today. You create new beliefs and new commitments that help you become your true self in this life and fast!
This is the new foundation that EVERYONE NEEDS!!
That is why I created the Tru-Life Academy. It is the foundation that everyone needs but that we are not all taught. I want everyone to have the knowledge, tools, integration strategies, support and guidance they need to learn what they need to learn to become their true-self, doing what they need to do to become their true-self and then become their true self!!
Women are doing it right now.
Women are changing once and for all.
Women are killing their old selves and being rebirthed as their new true self.
Women are choosing themselves and their life and their purpose on this earth!!
Join these women.
Don’t sabotage yourself anymore!!
And remember, I was right where you are at! I was holding myself back and had no idea why or how. I had to learn it all myself and it took me 5 years to really integrate it. Now I’m a totally new person on the other side radically living my truths and it feels free and miraculous!!
I want to help you get to the other side faster, with ease and grace, with loads of support and honestly having a blast!!!
Join the 2017-/18 year Tru-Life Academy and make the CHOICE TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE NOW!!
love & light, kelly